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FEMALE SEXUAL ANATOMY

We are encouraged to feel as if our bodies are not ours. Our "figure" is for a (potential) mate to admire. Our breasts are for "the man in our lives" to fondle during lovemaking, for our babies to suckle, for our doctors to examine. The same kind of

"hands-off" message is even stronger for our vaginas.

Anyone who has been around young children knows that baby girls play with their genitals just as they touch and explore all parts of their body. Although this activity seems pleasurable and interesting, most girls are quickly taught that it's "not nice" or "dirty," a prohibition that is probably reinforced during toilet training when the two- or three-year-old girl is urged to "wipe carefully" and "be clean." The sex-negative tone of these early childhood messages is consistently reinforced for most girls as they grow up, commonly creating anxieties and inhibitions about sex in general and their sexual anatomy in particular. These difficulties are compounded by many people's perception of the female sex organs as unattractive and unclean.

Menstruation is one source of such negative attitudes: menstrual periods are sometimes called "the curse," menstrual flow is contained by "sanitary" napkins (which suggests an underlying condition of uncleanliness), sex during menstruation is often avoided by men and women because it may be messy, and in some societies, there are strong taboos surrounding

menstruating women that isolate them so they will not contaminate food, plants, or people. In our cosmetic-conscious society of perfumes, deodorants, and after-shave lotions,, women have been told that their vaginal odors are unpleasant and should be hidden. As a result, "feminine hygiene deodorant sprays" were widely used until it became apparent that they frequently caused vaginal irritation and itching.

Many women have not taken a direct look at their own genitals or cannot accurately name and identify the parts of their sexual anatomy. (Sex organs in the pelvic region — in females, the outer sexual structures and the vagina, and in males, the penis, scrotum, and testes — are customarily called the genitals.) While we cannot imagine a person unable to distinguish between eyes, nose, mouth, and chin, many men and women have no idea of the location of the female urethra, clitoris, or hymen.

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